Well so you will understand here is a brief history. My parents were both on drugs and alcohol BAD. My brother and I were put into foster care. My father however even when we were at home used to beat us or not want anything to do with us. Well with all that being said my mom and I have now gotten a better relationship and she is clean and sober thanks to my step dad. My father is still not around nor does he want to be. I have made several attempts to try and start the relationship over since I am grown and nope he dont want it, but he can cater to my step moms kids and they are BAD into drugs, alcohol and in and out of jail. I have NEVER been in any of that. I thought since I was pregnant it would be a great chance for him and I to bond but he STILL dont want nothing to do with my brother or me. I am depressed due to not having my birth father want me, but my stepdad (god bless him) I am grateful because he is trying to give me what I missed out on. It just isnt the same as my birth father or what my sperm donor should have done. The question is should I just give up and no longer try or should I just step back and continue to try with him off an on?Answer Question
Answer by dbodani at 1:29 AM on Dec. 14, 2010
Answer by MamaAlice54 at 1:31 AM on Dec. 14, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 1:38 AM on Dec. 14, 2010
Answer by BellasMom185 at 2:02 AM on Dec. 14, 2010
That just sucks. Thank you for sharing your question, I do not see where you have any choices. Let go and move full force with your new life and new baby. Enjoy the people who love you and give no mind to the people that are not in your life. Today is not forever. Let go.
Keep sharing with your cafe-mom friends. I will be your friend.
Answer by rosetoes at 5:15 AM on Dec. 14, 2010
Answer by MotherAndMore at 6:05 AM on Dec. 14, 2010
Answer by meandrphoto at 2:32 PM on Dec. 14, 2010
Answer by fairygurl91787 at 1:51 AM on Dec. 15, 2010
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