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Is it wrong if you lie about being on birth control?

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Asked by vall11 at 2:44 AM on Dec. 14, 2010 in Pregnancy

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  • If you are lying to your partner then YES it is wrong to lie about being on birth control. If a child resulted from having sex, it is unfair to the partner because he would think it was not possible. Not cool!

    Now to anyone else, it is none of their business if you are on birth control or not.

    Answer by SleepingBeautee at 2:48 AM on Dec. 14, 2010

  • Agree w/sleeping. ABSOLUTELY WRONG TO LIE TO A SEXUAL PARTNER!!! THE MIRACLE CHILD DOES NOT ASK TO BE AN UNEXPECTED, NOR UNWELCOME VISITOR. There is no child that you can name that doesn't suffer from not having a loving parent in the picture. That is was leads to high crime, mental illness, depression. There is nothing worse in life than knowing that you were not wanted by one or both parents. Nothing!!!!! This is a crime that too many girls commit. They are the typical single moms, girls who didn't plan for their children. A child deserves better. A child is innocent and pure and beautiful pure love. A child is worth the wait for a good father, or your own independent security. SEX, on the other hand, was created for reproduction, and because of human gluttony and stupidity, we think we can have sex whenever, with whoever. Look at society!!! Is is worth it? To ruin a childs life!

    Answer by Peyote at 3:06 AM on Dec. 14, 2010

  • yes it is wrong

    Answer by firelites at 3:10 AM on Dec. 14, 2010

  • It's very wrong.

    Answer by Razelda at 3:25 AM on Dec. 14, 2010

  • Whether you are lying about being ON it or NOT being on it:
    The other party deserves to know what's going on.
    Ethically, being truthful is important.

    Is there more to the story??


    Answer by doulala at 3:28 AM on Dec. 14, 2010

  • Sure if a woman wants to have a male respectfully give her his self and her to him, it's altering the reproduction, but it's still her body not his. Even when married that man will have total control over that woman partner. NO no no no and no! Men aren't programmed the same way. This is not changing ever. Men just want to propagate. Women on the other hand want a lifelong person to love and care for her. She is a gift from God. Men... if having to give birth, would choose birth control . We weren't just put here to have children, it's still our bodies and our choices. I know wars have been started over less. Women are women, not things.

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:44 AM on Dec. 14, 2010

  • All she would have to do is miss one pill to get pregnant, and he find out.

    Man kind is not kind.

    men fight war-- we clean up the messes (enough said)

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:46 AM on Dec. 14, 2010

  • You should NEVER lie to your spouse/SO about being on birth control. Is it wrong to lie to friends, family, or random people about whether you are on it or not? No, not really, but I don't see why it would be necessary.

    Answer by FluffyMamaBunny at 4:11 AM on Dec. 14, 2010

  • Wrong and completly unfair in everyway!!! that is selfish of a chic to lie about something so serious and life changing!! That is actually just plain SICK!!! That sounds like a chic trying to trick a man in some sick way.

    Answer by BobbieJo286 at 8:53 AM on Dec. 14, 2010

  • So very wrong.

    Answer by khedy at 11:03 AM on Dec. 14, 2010

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