okay so hubby and i are going through i guess you can say a dry spell when it comes to sex and romance, are sex has been so so and there is 0 romance. we dont have much money so getting awa for a weekend or even a day/night is out of the question, we have 4 boys under 4 and e just moved in with his father and sister to help them out. so it just is not a great mix for sex and romance. so we dont even have the house to our selfs. do you ladies have an ideas of what we can do. thank youAnswer Question
Answer by butterflyblue19 at 10:17 AM on Dec. 14, 2010
Answer by older at 10:18 AM on Dec. 14, 2010
Answer by ShouldHaveLeft at 10:20 AM on Dec. 14, 2010
If you are living with his father and sister to help them out it sounds like you have some babysitters at hand, that's a start. Romance is subjective, with 4 small kids just getting out and spending time together would be romantic enough for me. Browse a bookstore together go out for coffee, go for a long drive.
Answer by RyansMom001 at 10:20 AM on Dec. 14, 2010
Answer by NannyB. at 10:21 AM on Dec. 14, 2010
Answer by KFree907 at 10:21 AM on Dec. 14, 2010
You can boost the romance by doing little things, like sending a lovey text message for no reason or just giving a hug or kiss for no reason at all. You don't have to spend money to have some alone time - take a walk around the neighborhood alone or take a drive together to look at Christmas lights. When you have kids, you really have to be creative about how to spend time together, even if its just a half hour here and there. I think once you start boosting the romance level, the dry spell will decrease because you will find a place to have some privacy because you will really want to - necessity is the mother of invention!
Answer by tarakenyon06 at 10:22 AM on Dec. 14, 2010
Answer by bratgirln1 at 11:14 AM on Dec. 14, 2010
Answer by momofkids at 9:56 PM on Dec. 14, 2010
Answer by fairygurl91787 at 1:39 AM on Dec. 15, 2010