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I cant believe my marriage is going to end over...... adult content

The fact that my DH wants to have a 3 or 4some and I do not.

DH is the only person I have slept with and his exscuse is,
he thinks it would do me some good to sleep with another man

I think he's out of his mind and is just looking for a reason to sleep
with someone else.

Any advice...

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Asked by Anonymous at 1:44 PM on Dec. 14, 2010 in Relationships

Answers (45)
  • Unbelievable! He thinks it would do you good to sleep with another man??? In what way? That's crazy and if that's how he feels - good riddance! But I am sorry that you are going through this and hope you and your husband can find a way around it.

    Answer by missanc at 1:45 PM on Dec. 14, 2010

  • So he's calling off your marriage because you won't do a threesome?

    Doesn't sound like you're losing much. I'm sorry girl. *hugs*

    Answer by thatgirl70 at 1:45 PM on Dec. 14, 2010

  • He's not worth keeping! I would cut his penis off before you kick him out the front door. What an ASS!!!

    Answer by usdragonflies at 1:45 PM on Dec. 14, 2010

  • I'am sorry girl!!I think your right.......i don't think if your husband really loved you he could watch another man have sex with you...OMG

    Answer by Jayk77 at 1:46 PM on Dec. 14, 2010

  • not surprising , most males are pigs.

    Answer by letstalk747 at 1:47 PM on Dec. 14, 2010

  • No advice here...but here's a BIG HUG for you.

    Answer by Dayija at 1:50 PM on Dec. 14, 2010

  • Sorry I can't help you. I know that I would not want to have a 3 or 4 some with my DH. I also know that we were not each others firsts. People might think I am crazy for saying this, I think it is a good idea to have more then one partner. Now I'm not saying have 100's of partners and I am not saying have more than 1 at a time. I just think if you learn what you like and don't like.

    Good Luck and maybe you could talk to him and see what he is looking for. Maybe he wants something a little more and you just need to spice things up a little without inviting other people into your bedroom.

    Answer by cornflakegirl3 at 1:51 PM on Dec. 14, 2010

  • yeah, my x said that too. Hence the "x"

    Answer by admckenzie at 1:51 PM on Dec. 14, 2010

  • Wait....he wants to have a in you, him, and another guy? Darling, have you considered that maybe he's gay? If he suggested another man and not another woman, maybe HE wants to sleep with another man. Honestly, that's what I would think.

    Answer by Gemska at 1:56 PM on Dec. 14, 2010

  • He obviously has no respect for you if he is even seriously considering this an option. Unfortunately it may be time for you to move and it sounds like you will be better off in the end. Sorry this is happening to you.

    Answer by ditchen4 at 1:56 PM on Dec. 14, 2010

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