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Should I worry my 3 1/2 month old doesn't look at me when he's nursing

My son was born at 34 weeks. He is now about 3 1/2 months old. I am worried because he does not make eye contact with me when he's nursing, even if I start talking to him. My daughter, who is 4, made eye contact much better than he did. Sometimes he responds to my voice, sometimes he doesn't. Is this normal?

he does look and smile at me sometimes when i am changing him, but he doesn't when i go to pick him up from his crib.

 

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carolann8606

Asked by carolann8606 at 3:17 PM on Dec. 14, 2010 in Babies (0-12 months)

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  • Mine didnt look at me most of the time. He usually looked around or kept his eyes closed
    mommy_of_two388

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 3:18 PM on Dec. 14, 2010

  • My duaghter doesn't look at me that often, she usually as her eyes closed or is looking around!1 shes 5 months
    austinsmama1106

    Answer by austinsmama1106 at 3:21 PM on Dec. 14, 2010

  • No, don't worry. Just be aware of him.
    tootoobusy

    Answer by tootoobusy at 3:24 PM on Dec. 14, 2010

  • I honestly can't remember mine paying attention to me for a LONG time while nursing. He was busy. **smile** I don't think you have anything to worry about.
    gdiamante

    Answer by gdiamante at 3:25 PM on Dec. 14, 2010

  • Does he make eye contact with you at other times? Like when you're changing him?
    UpSheRises

    Answer by UpSheRises at 3:32 PM on Dec. 14, 2010

  • u can not compare ur daugther to ur son the baby is just 3 and a half months old ,girl pickup a little faster than boys i have 3 boys still babie ,s twins 6 and a 11 year old start off slow and now my twins got the presidental reading award in kindergarten,in first grade make honour roll for a sec there i taught they were slow ,so let the baby be a baby and he will come around just enjoy him for the precious thing he is
    bentos

    Answer by bentos at 4:36 PM on Dec. 14, 2010

  • I don't think it's a big deal. When my son was nursing he almost never looked at me. He was usually looking around the room. They get distracted or become interested in their surroundings. It's ok.
    walkintherain

    Answer by walkintherain at 7:22 PM on Dec. 14, 2010

  • As long as you are getting some eye contact throughout the day and smiles, I think you're A-okay.
    new_mom808

    Answer by new_mom808 at 8:07 PM on Dec. 14, 2010

  • I wouldnt worry....my son sometimes looks at me while nursing, but mostly his eyes will close.
    team21

    Answer by team21 at 8:31 PM on Dec. 14, 2010

  • No, probablem. My 3 month does the same.
    sexyfancyface

    Answer by sexyfancyface at 8:57 PM on Dec. 16, 2010

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