Okay, here's the situation.........I know a gal with 4 kids. Ages 10, 7, 3, and 7mo. She is also 3 mo prego. She is getting $700 in food stamps, full medical, and $600 cash assistance (She said she will get an additional $100 for each additional kid she pops out according to her case worker), and is on HUD(they pay for your housing, so her rent is only $125). The thing is, her boyfriend has a full time job making GOOD money about $2200. She does NOT report him in the house because they would loose HUD and cash assistance. and the food stamps would go down. They have been doing this fraud for over a year now. I tried to report them in the past, but had no proof. Now I have proof, but it will cost my family alot. My husband pays childsupport to her every month and it goes to the state. She said if we report her she will have it recalculated and according to the online version my husbands support order would go up about $400 a month. We barely scrape by as it is. Would you report them or just let karma catch up to them? My DH says let her be a welfare ho. I say it is wrong to not report it. I am tired of her controlling him with the childsupport threat. What would you do?????????Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 5:35 PM on Dec. 14, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by usdragonflies at 5:40 PM on Dec. 14, 2010
I would report them, while she is being a "welfare ho" as your hubby put it, the tax payers are the ones footing the bill. Welfare should go to those who need it, not those who are greedy and dishonest. I don't understand why your hubby's child support should go up, I would ask his attorney. Good luck!
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