VERY long story short: I just moved in with my male friend and his brother. They are 29 and 37. I expected responsibility out of them. Since being here, I have pretty much being doing all the dishes, taking out the garbage, I have done all the shopping and cooking... you name it. I even make ALL the phone calls for repairs, pge, trash pick up, whatever. The first week here, the 29 year old, Joe, BLASTS his music all day long non-stop. This has finally come to an end, but I'm not sure why, so I don't know if I should expect it again. Then, for TWO WEEKS all he did was play on his computer, not do put shit away and slept on the futon in the living room all hours of the day or night and make it so no one could use the kitchen or lviing room.
Again, long story short: My mutual friend told him it would drive her crazy if he was doing that shit, so then he put his bed in his room. FINALLY. Now, he left his neice and nephew over at the hous unattended. When they are here, he ignores them and all they do is pester and harass me. They were here from 7am to 4pm unattended. I called him and left a voicemail stating I was upset. He didn't return my phone call or e-mail on facebook. NOW this morning I woke up at 7:30 am to the surround sound in the living room BLASTING to an aciton movie. I told my room mate and he appologized, then he said "well that's what speakers are for". Now he is telling me I need to "get over myself" and "deal with it". I posted something on my FB abou the dishes and Joe finally did them and now he is giving me attitude. Very long story short. They are brothers and they are both disrespectful and lazy as fuck. John keeps telling me "communication, we need to communicate" but NOTHING I say is listened to. I told him I have no patients left for it. And they both need to grow up and act considerate. He had told me "you need to realize, Joe is lazy and will never do a dish in his life" I said "you need to realize, you have room mates now, and joe is 29 and needs to grow up and act like an adult".... seriosuly... I'm livid out of my fuckin gmind. I wish I could pack up and move right now... three weeks into a 1 year lease...
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