I went through and ugly divorce when my son was only 4/5 years old. I moved out of state to be near my support and my ex got primary custody. He is not a good father and I have been fighting for over a year but Vegas justice system is horrible and it's taking forever. I have asked my son simple questions, he is 8.5 yrs now, such as who watches him when his dad goes out of state to get his other kid and he looks at his dad and says I can't tell you because daddy says not to!!!!!! WTF what is he hiding that I can't get that information from. I am bringing it up at court but my son is flying down Saturday and I would like to get this information from him without baggering.Answer Question
Answer by cornflakegirl3 at 12:59 PM on Dec. 15, 2010
I went through a Very Nasty custody battle with my son when he was 5, i live in NC & he lived in VA with his Dad- i had him every other weekend- After sometime of him being with his Dad his behavior started to change- he seemed really depressed & would make any excuse in the world why he couldn't go back to VA when the weekend was over- He couldn't tell me what was going on so, one day i asked him to draw me some pictures of anything he wanted- He drew a house & a tree in black crayons with him standing by the tree Alone & Black Tears rolling down his face- it was enough for me to know he was very unhappy & felt all alone- i will never get that picture out of my mind but, i had a Emergency Court Hearing & he was back in my custody within 2 weeks- my lawyer was allowed to use his pictures in court- Maybe you should have your son do the same thing! Wishing you lots of luck! My son is now 22:)
Answer by daisyb at 1:28 PM on Dec. 15, 2010
Answer by Sandyr911 at 1:43 PM on Dec. 15, 2010
I hope you can get this taken care of. Its so sad that you are trying to give him a voice, a nobody is listening to you :(
I send you all the luck in the world, so you can get that poor boy back!
Answer by Mme.Langley at 2:30 PM on Dec. 15, 2010