I don't know if it's something I cause, or just the way things go in every relationship..but I have had 3 relationships in the last 2 yrs..the 3rd one and I are back & forth right now..but it seems like when he is trying his hardest to please me, I'm pulling away..scared to trust because he's hurt me a lot..and then just when he's been good to me consistently long enough for me to start buying into it again, really start to be convinced he loves me...I start treating him like a king and being good back to him, trying to make him feel loved in every way I can..then HE pulls away!! It's been this way throughout my last 3 relationships like I said..either they're being really good and loving or I am, but never both at the same time!! Wth?? Does anyone else ever experience this? It's so frusterating...I swear sometimes I really think men are more drawn to me when I'm a bitch than when I'm a good loving sweet girlfriend!!! They treat me like a diva when I act like one then a doormat when I'm nice! I can't win!!!
Asked by Anonymous at 1:39 PM on Dec. 15, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by Jayk77 at 2:43 PM on Dec. 15, 2010
Answer by older at 1:43 PM on Dec. 15, 2010
Answer by blessedwithree at 1:51 PM on Dec. 15, 2010
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