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How do I know when to get a divorce?

My husband have been going to marriage counciling for about 5 months now, things seemed to be getting better for a bit but than all the sudden it was back to hell. And on top of it all i'm the blame for everything that is wrong with our marriage.. How long do you stick it out before you just say enough....?

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when2letgo

Asked by when2letgo at 10:21 PM on Dec. 15, 2010 in Relationships

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  • When it becomes emotionally, physically, or mentally abusive. If it ever got to that point, I'd leave.
    Razelda

    Answer by Razelda at 10:27 PM on Dec. 15, 2010

  • when you can look them in the face and tell them you don't love them any more.. or you are scared you may go "good bye earl" on them.
    MamaJasmine

    Answer by MamaJasmine at 10:31 PM on Dec. 15, 2010

  • I think everyone's break point is different. Only you know when you had enough!
    Darla47

    Answer by Darla47 at 10:56 PM on Dec. 15, 2010

  • Forever & for always!

    Isn't that what you said in your wedding vows? 'Til death do us part? Neither one of you has passed, so stick w/it! It's worth it in the long run. You'll be glad you did. Love, honor & cherish him and pray for him. Be vigilant and you'll see a change. Promise!
    etexmom

    Answer by etexmom at 11:22 PM on Dec. 15, 2010

  • Sounds like you have had enough
    fairygurl91787

    Answer by fairygurl91787 at 1:40 AM on Dec. 16, 2010

  • When you start asking questions like this.
    ShouldHaveLeft

    Answer by ShouldHaveLeft at 9:28 AM on Dec. 16, 2010

  • At least give the counseling time. And spend time focusing on you and what you do wrong. Also lay out what you want from him in a kind way and give him time to do it. Otherwise only you know when you are done.
    bjane01

    Answer by bjane01 at 10:00 AM on Dec. 16, 2010

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