I am going through the same situation. I have written one long letter but I also leave him little notes (often). I leave them where he will find them randomly (truck, sock drawer, coat pocket, tool box etc....) Some have said Love you, The kids and I want you in our lives, you are a great man that has just made bad decesions, I will always be here, I believe in you etc... He aways thanks me and tells me they made all the difference in his day. Good luck, I hope he does what it takes to beat his addiction.
at 1:33 PM on Dec. 16, 2010