I am freaking out. I can't sleep, I found a strange number on our phone bill repeatedly, on nights my husband wasn't coming home last week. I blocked the number and called and got a voicemail greeting for a female. I was devastated. So I surfed around on myspace and found pictures of him at parties when he said he was so exhausted he had to stay at the barracks (my hubby is a Marine). We have alot of other issues but I have stuck by him and his mistakes, I don't know if I can handle this. We have a 9 month old boy who is my heart and soul... I thought I picked a good man to be a father. Where do we go from here?Answer Question
Have you ASKED him if he has cheated? If he admits to it or is caught in the act he CAN be punish by military law. Adultery is a BIG no-no in the military and he can get thrown in the brig, and receive an article 15 or worse for committing adultery.
I suggest keeping an open line of honest communication with him about it. If he denies it, there is really nothing that you CAN do about it until he is caught. It seems to me all you don't really have any evidence that is TOO incriminating...it's all just circumstantial...except maybe about the parties in the barracks...you could "bust" him on that.
Answer by AvasMommy810 at 6:28 AM on Nov. 8, 2008
P.S....I'm an Army wife...I know what it's like to feel neglected and, as a result, begin to jump to conclusions...especially when you have trust issues to begin with. Our husband's spend a LOT of work related time away from home...weeks in the field training, CQ duty, staff duty, guard duty, deployments....it takes a strong couple to withstand it all.
Answer by AvasMommy810 at 6:31 AM on Nov. 8, 2008
Answer by babyzionsmama at 6:31 AM on Nov. 8, 2008
pardon my grammar...I haven't slept in a while...lol
Answer by AvasMommy810 at 6:32 AM on Nov. 8, 2008
Answer by babyzionsmama at 6:34 AM on Nov. 8, 2008
Answer by babyzionsmama at 6:35 AM on Nov. 8, 2008
Trust me...DON'T get nosey and start LOKKING for ways to pin him...that's only makes matters worse and drives you further apart. IFhe IS cheating, he will make himself known one day without anyone else's help. Have you talked with him about why you feel this way? Maybe there is a very logical explanation for it all and things just seemed to point in the "cheating" direction when it was really just something innocent. Maybe the girl is a wife or GF of one of his buddies and his buddy just uses his wife's or GF's phone. You'll never really know for sure. This is why they say that trust is key in a healthy relationship...a relationship starts to break down when there is a lack of trust.
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