Ok, so long story short is my boyfriend has been really distant lately. So today while he was gone I went snooping through his computer. I wasn't sure what I might find but like anyone who goes snooping they do it because they know they might find something.
Now before you go judging me please understand that he's not been totally honest with me before. But he has also never gone this far in his actions. So anyways I find that he has created an account at a horney singles web site. He put in his description that he just wanted to look. I am not against porn, I have told him this. It bugs me that I am not enough for him. I wish I had the porn queen look, but I don't and I doubt that I ever will.
I have fribromyalgia, along with other diseases that go along with it. But I still wait on him hand and foot. I still care for our kids, and do all the house work with out complaint. Plus I also do all the lawn maintence and vechicle repair all on my own. He wanted to raise rabbits as a hobby, but he never goes and sees them I do daily, all 21 of them!! I have even been without a stove and oven for more than a year, without complaint, even did without a fridge for more than 3 months in the begining.
I want my old boyfriend back the one who felt I was enough. Our sex life is pretty good, or so I thought. I never tell him no, even when I'm NOT in the mood, I still put out. I am in shock that he would even think of creating an account at a website like that.
I know someone is gonna say well you did this to your self, and your right I did. But in my defense I wouldn't of gone snooping had he not been super distant. But now what do I do, I hate fighting with him, but I'm at a loss. Do I ignore what I found and not say a word? Do I confront him? Or do I hold onto what I know and confront him at a later date?
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