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my husband smoked and drank at least one to two beers about 6 nights out of the week during my pregnancy and now its where i can have a few occasionally .. i smoked for a year b4 i got pregnant so not long...but when i drink i want to smoke one.... but no other time... he tells me that i am not allowed to smoke.. i told him i dont want to start back i just want to smoke one when i drink.. he refused to let me have one and told me he was putting his foot down... excuse me????????? when did you become my boss???? one every once in a while ??? i seriously dont even like the taste of them now unless i have a buzz... so what would it hurt?


Asked by Ross2010 at 12:31 AM on Dec. 17, 2010 in Relationships

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  • I have a friend who does that -- she never smokes unless she is drinking alcohol. Its never made her want to smoke all the time.

    Answer by sweet29mom at 12:35 AM on Dec. 17, 2010

  • If he is just trying to show you he cares about your health, he has a really bad way of showing it. Seems very controlling to me.

    Answer by -AJ at 1:04 AM on Dec. 17, 2010

  • he should try a different approach. he needs to remember u are an adult not his kid.

    Answer by maya123 at 2:40 AM on Dec. 17, 2010

  • maybe you could consider giving up both smoking and drinking then he might stop and look at all the money you'd save plus you'd be healthier

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:26 AM on Dec. 17, 2010