So if wife A understood/comprehended how her husband shows his love/romances her. Then she would see the intention behind his actions. Therefore she would realize that she is being romanced, in her husband's unique way of showing her that romance. And neither would be feeling neglected or unappreciated in this area.
From my personal experience (married 25yrs now). Once I learned and understood my husband's manner/idea of romance, and he mine. Neither of us have ever felt negelected/unappreciated in this area again,because when an action is put into place we both understand the INTENT behind the action. That's the key, is knowing/understanding the intent behind the action. I now see that my husband does things for me almost everyday that are romantic in his eyes. And vice a versa.
Learn his way of comprehending romance and romancing (and vice a versa). It may turn out you guys are romancing quite abit. It's just not seen
at 3:49 PM on Dec. 17, 2010