so we had our first big fight about him taking me for granted.. we are in counseling and he was supposed to read this chapter in a book and he didnt, two weeks went by and still did not. other things happened two like not responding to my text and things.. anyways so i was asking him to read the chapter and he was telling me he did want to because i was telling him too. so i was like fine you dont want to read it and i tore it out of the book. anyways it escalated and we ended up not talking and he slept on the couch... arrh.. so question is what am i to do.. i texed and said sorry it escalated,, and he said he is almost over the fight,, no sorry or anything... but its gonna be weird when he gets home.. any suggestions
Answer by NannyB. at 2:44 PM on Dec. 17, 2010
If you are in counseling you need to ask your counselor .... there is too little from this post for us to determine.
IF I was to go ONLY on this post I would say you are a bit of a pita and he is tired of it. Women who whine "Im not appreciated" need to look at them selves and honestly ask... are you appreciating him too? Do you say it to him? Do you show it to him? Or are you tired and whiny? You hounded him like his mother... men want a WIFE not a mother. Im sure if you had a sweeter approch he would have done it. Remember the saying you get more bees with honey.
Again... your councelor would know better... but this is what I got from what you posted.
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