I have a long distant relationship. If I leave the kids will be far away from their father. We are divorced but he still sees the kids all the time. My boyfriend says he wants me closer. He says if I could move in a year it would be great. ( of course he would propose)
But I am torn. I love him but I would feel bad for taking the kids further from dad. My boyfriend says he will do everything to make sure the kids see him as often as possible.
What should I do?
Asked by Anonymous at 8:44 PM on Dec. 17, 2010 in General Parenting
Answer by Ginger0104 at 8:46 PM on Dec. 17, 2010
Answer by butterflyblue19 at 8:46 PM on Dec. 17, 2010
how come he doesnt move to you. if it was me i would stay there if the your ex is still fully involved. but thats just me.
Answer by Autumn19 at 8:47 PM on Dec. 17, 2010
Answer by MomIWant at 8:48 PM on Dec. 17, 2010
Answer by Aqua_Jen at 8:55 PM on Dec. 17, 2010
Answer by countrygirl06 at 9:07 PM on Dec. 17, 2010
You might want to figure out if it is even possible for you to move first. Depending on your custody agreement you may not be move further than a certain distance. Otherwise I would talk to the ex and the kids and try to come to an agreement that works for everybody, hope you can figure something out so you can all be happy =)
Answer by skittles1108 at 9:09 PM on Dec. 17, 2010
Answer by MaryMW at 9:30 PM on Dec. 17, 2010