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DH is a drinker

Recently he has started interogating me on a situation I conceived a child in. I have a biracial son and every time hubby gets a drunk on he confronts me thinking im lying about the situation. I have never lied to him about anything. When he is sober it is never an issue. How do I deal with this?

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Asked by gatorswife at 3:18 PM on Dec. 18, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Have you ever brought it up when hes sober?

    Answer by Lobelia at 3:19 PM on Dec. 18, 2010

  • Talk to him about it when he's sober

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 3:21 PM on Dec. 18, 2010

  • Does he have a problem with your son?

    Answer by hotrodlassie at 3:22 PM on Dec. 18, 2010

  • Sounds like he has a problem with drinking....and confrontation

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 3:29 PM on Dec. 18, 2010

  • how long can he kick a dog what i mean if keep saying over and over again you get tried of it i would tell him move on i heard before
    it sound like your son and him do not get along to bad he could have some one that looks up to him,next time he starts drinking walk out go some where else or just leave him take your son
    your hubby will never be call dad by your son and he never be real man either

    Answer by dutchcanadain at 3:31 PM on Dec. 18, 2010

  • Soumds like maybe ur hubby should get help for his drinking,If he says these things only whn he is drunk then it must bother him even whn he sober and he just dnt say anythng,You need to let him knw that it's not cool to be like thAT GRL.

    Answer by carisa368 at 3:49 PM on Dec. 18, 2010

  • If not resovled, this may get worse and time goes on............................

    Do not forget......YOU SON CAN HEAR THIS :(

    Answer by SissyAnn141 at 1:28 AM on Dec. 19, 2010

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