Our cars are both skrewed. One of the cars is ours and the other is a friends car that we borrowed. Our car needs a new motor (about 2750 dollar job) and the other needs an alternator(300 dollar job). We still pay payments on our car (195 monthly).
We break even every month right now. To finance our car getting fixed it will cost 500 up from and 300 per month for 9 months, or we can just pay it off with income tax returns.
We would fix the other car but his friend doesn't have it registered any more, it expired, and I am at my whits end.
I can't take walking extra far anymore in the rain. My son can't even go to any of his play dates. We have been with out a car for 4 months. OOOOOHHHHHH I am just ready to blow my lid.
When this happens, my SO has had 4 months to get his shit together for this car and he hasn't, I get like a drill sergeant, nothing gets passed me, I start to dictate bills, I get snappy, etc. I am really stressing out.
He has so much debt, is getting sued, and is acting like he's a fucking baby. I am ready to just cut his lazy ass loose. It's enough that all of the money goes to his fucking bills, I never see a dime of my own check, but if I ditch him I will have nothing to worry about, absolutely no debt. It's tempting, never thought I'd leave him because of money, but the stress is breaking me down.
Help!!!I don't know where to begin or what to do anymore
Asked by Anonymous at 10:10 PM on Dec. 18, 2010 in Relationships
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