He was a former metrosexual in his bachelor days. I thought all was well after we went out and got home late, but he as usual will use a passive agressive move to ask me to call his sister. He will never do it. I do not get along and am not in the mood for her whiny , high maintenance ways of not helooing out and just acting so uppity. I did not answer my husband and just went up to take a shower. He did not say anything to me since I have so much going on with my dad who is very ill. During the holidays it is the worst feeling. So sorry if I do not want Miss Diva around. I had to pass. Why do you think he did this so late at night? He never does that....
Asked by Anonymous at 8:46 AM on Dec. 19, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by Mandz1 at 8:48 AM on Dec. 19, 2010
Answer by caseyandkids at 8:52 AM on Dec. 19, 2010
Tell him 2 get off of his lazy bum & clean the drawers & closets his own self! Ur not a robot but a human being that has feelings & he should respect that!
Answer by NubianQueen78 at 9:08 AM on Dec. 19, 2010
Well, since he has experience getting the closets and drawers a certain way, I would ask for his help in organizing them the way he likes. I imagine clothes and appearances are pretty important to him from what you said and the closet/drawer thing might be a big deal to him. I can understand being upset that he was yelling, I'm just suggesting a compromise. As for calling his sister, I also understand that you don't want to talk with her, but no answering him at all really is not the way to do things. I would explain to him that you really are not up to talking with her now and he could do it then or you would call her later. It sounds like he is trying to pick his battles with you, but you both need to sit down and communicate about what you need right now. Good luck.
Answer by scout_mom at 9:12 AM on Dec. 19, 2010
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