So long story short. husband of 7 years cheated on me with a ex girlfriend he hooked up with via myspace/ facebook and we are working on trust and such and he wanted to make a new facebook account. he said he would only put his friends and family on it. so I am thinking immediate family such as brothers sisters cousins and close friends. So then he added some girl that is a relative by marriage, and his brothers ex girlfriend that is the mom of his nephew that he hasn't seen in 14 years, and says that he grew up with them so they are family and then some other girls are friends from back whenever or friends of the family and his brothers wife's sister who he says he considers family that he only new for two years and hasn't seen in like 10. so basically any one he says is family is family. So i say how can i know he is not doing anything fishy if family is just on who he considers family ect. well he says that we can talk about the person before he adds them. which means he says why they are important friends or why they are considered family and then i am just supposed to say ok. cuz if i say i don't want them on then it will just be an argument. SO i say how bout you just don't go on facebook after 9pm so i know he is not doing anything,, and he says that is so juvenile..so basically its all gonna be his way. I never would have agreed on opening the facebook had i know.. now there is nothing I can do. I am just upset and feel like i am so stupid for not clarifying what should be considered family or friends in the beginning..
Answer by spottedpony at 2:18 PM on Dec. 19, 2010
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Answer by LuvMyMedic3ID at 9:51 AM on Dec. 19, 2010
Facebook is evil and disgusting. With loads of bad people. But if your HB wants to cheat on you again, he doesn't need the facebook. There are so many other pages he can find someone to hook up with. I don't think I could rebuild the trust with anyone if this would happen. I don't think it would be anything to talk about anymore. Go forward and find your guy who wants you and not a woman from his past. You can never rebuild your trust and you can feel it otherwise you wouldn't write this question here. You can close your eyes and live like nothing happened but the pain will never go away. And if he follows this behaviour with you (add anyone on facebook, etc.) than nothing changed. I am sorry that happened. I hope you will find your true other half soon.
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