My DH has been asking me for almost a year now to try anal sex with him. When I say no he doesn't push it. Yesterday he asked me why I'm so against trying it. I told him that its because it looks painful & unnatural! I don't know what to think? Should I try it with him? What would make it more comfortable?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 2:50 PM on Dec. 19, 2010 in Relationships
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Answer by lstrickland at 3:41 PM on Dec. 19, 2010
To be honest we have tried it several times, and not my cup of tea but after years of being together we have had time to build up to it sorta. Just remember he has to be gentle at first use lube for sure and you have to be relaxed and some what open to the idea. The first time is not always going to be the best just like the first time you have sex isn't always going to be the best. Honestly if you read on it and get yourself comfortable with the idea it's not bad. And as to the idea of being unnatural you definately have to get past that thought to even move forward. It's a learning experience and people have been doing anal for hundreds of years just never really spoke of it. Some guys like it too, lol.
Answer by megarisav at 4:07 PM on Dec. 19, 2010
Answer by momma2b2008 at 5:04 PM on Dec. 19, 2010
my hubby wanted to do this and i was against it at first. however after me going to the sex toy store and investagating we are trying to work on it. there are lubes that are meant for this and as long as u lube up really good then its not as painful. dont rushed right into it. play around have some fun and then go for it. good luck
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