My husband can hold the deepest grudges (over sometimes the smallest offenses) even those against his mother WAIT... that he loves dearly!
I have tried to say to him the "what ifs" but to no avail - he sees himself as being shun .... like the old saying "Once bitten; twice shy"
This is across the board ladies, not any one particular incident and sometimes when it is between him and siblings it is quite childlike.
What would you do - say something or nothing?
Answer by AingealsBabies at 5:39 PM on Dec. 19, 2010
Answer by Adelicious at 5:40 PM on Dec. 19, 2010
Im willing to bet that this is nothing new that this is EXACTLY what he was like when you were dating, when he proposed, and though out the marriage. YOU chose this.... you cant change him now because you changed your mind. This is what YOU chose. Live with it.
Answer by Anonymous at 5:41 PM on Dec. 19, 2010
Answer by pixie_trix at 5:55 PM on Dec. 19, 2010
Answer by cattiesmom78 at 11:25 AM on Dec. 20, 2010