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Ways to 'spice up' a marriage?

I've only been married for 2 years and the sex is getting boring. Suggestions?

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Asked by Anonymous at 9:16 PM on Dec. 19, 2010 in Relationships

Answers (5)
  • Send him some sexy texts. Send him some sexy photos on his phone.

    Answer by mmmegan38 at 9:21 PM on Dec. 19, 2010

  • visit your local sex shop. either go with him or surprise him with something. trying something new (or something you haven't done in awhile) or even just putting on a sexy outfit and surprising him is a good way to spice up your sex life.

    Answer by cheribabii613 at 9:21 PM on Dec. 19, 2010

  • I'm surprising my hubby with a lapdance when he gets home from overseas this week. His first one ever :) I'm pretty excited. Also some naughty talk in the bedroom can get things a little hot.

    Answer by annabsmommy at 11:13 PM on Dec. 19, 2010

  • Role play. I love role playing with my husband. Especially if u two get really into it and u maybe meet each other during lunch for sex. Also try a sex game from the adult store. But I think just taking things out of the bedroom will help too. Two years and things are getting boring? Just make sure u don't get too comfortable and just remember how u use to be. And don't be afraid to tell ur husband things aren't the way u like and u want to spice things up. But for me role playing is the best. My husband was my trainer and he started giving me complete body workouts, if u know what I mean. Well his character did. LOL.

    Answer by True_Gator_77 at 11:57 PM on Dec. 19, 2010

  • Go shopping for sex toys, XXX movies, and outfits. You have to explore urself before you can expect ur husband to know what to do. I was the same way after I had my daughter and now my sex drive is great because I spent the past 6 months sleeping with myself.

    Answer by mom42107 at 12:53 PM on Dec. 20, 2010

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