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my man wants me to be more freaky in bed how can i do that when he was my 1st and last

im not sure really wat to do ?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 12:39 AM on Dec. 20, 2010 in Relationships

Answers (13)
  • What do you mean last? Anyway, it's your body, only do what you are comfortable with.
    m-avi

    Answer by m-avi at 12:41 AM on Dec. 20, 2010

  • Do what he wants except make the rule to never include another person in the mix it will be the demise of your relationship. Get and read books of different positions, locations, ideas, etc... it'll actually be fun!!
    mom2priceboys

    Answer by mom2priceboys at 12:43 AM on Dec. 20, 2010

  • If you are having a hard time relaxing and just getting your freak on, try drinking a couple of wine coolers or whatever your drink of choice, that should wake the freak in you ☺
    It dosn't have to be an every time but once in a while.
    looovemybabies

    Answer by looovemybabies at 12:46 AM on Dec. 20, 2010

  • Read a book, there are great books out there. There is one, I haven't purchased it yet, but heard it was great "sex is fun" the book.
    Bubbie0809

    Answer by Bubbie0809 at 12:48 AM on Dec. 20, 2010

  • Watch a porno...there are also some "how to" pornos out there. Don't bash me, it's just an idea...lol
    ShouldHaveLeft

    Answer by ShouldHaveLeft at 12:50 AM on Dec. 20, 2010

  • why is he ur last? im lost there.. do what ur comfortable with
    lilred07

    Answer by lilred07 at 12:59 AM on Dec. 20, 2010

  • i havent sleept with any one but him thats why i say last
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 1:02 AM on Dec. 20, 2010

  • I agree with the have a drink thing!lol
    harris4

    Answer by harris4 at 1:11 AM on Dec. 20, 2010

  • Maybe try out some toys :) I like toys and it makes it way better. You should check out "passion party" on google, and check out their online cataloug :) I like "ice ice baby"
    bananaapplepie

    Answer by bananaapplepie at 1:11 AM on Dec. 20, 2010

  • Do you have any fantasies? If so, try acting them out with him..use your imagination..step outside the vanilla sex box. lol. Ask him what he would like, that way you can get ideas. I durno what else, as I haven't been there before..I always know how to get my Husband going and make Him happy in the sack. lol. Good luck!
    -AJ

    Answer by -AJ at 1:55 AM on Dec. 20, 2010

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