To stay and suffer with someone who you feel like is not the person you need them to be, who isn't the man you need them to be, who walks out on you, who ignores you, who when you tell them how you feel and exactly what you need from them, they just get up and abandon you only to try and return later and ignore the issue. Someone who adds no good to your life and who isn't trying to better there's all while you are trying to grow they are content doing nothing to grow as a person in any way shape or form.
I'm tempted to take out a student loan to pay for my rent in the new semester, because my job only covers food and small bills. I want to just leave and see if that will spark some growth from him, or maybe it'll help me realize it's really over.
Should I just go at the new year, should I give him a couple months of my new fed up attitude as a warning, (I feel completely numb) ????
Apart of me wants to just up and leave the first chance I can get.
Another part of me wants to give him the cold should the next few months until our kid is out of school, and then once summer rolls around move away.
Asked by Anonymous at 6:18 AM on Dec. 20, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by raemommy at 6:27 AM on Dec. 20, 2010
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Answer by louise2 at 7:28 AM on Dec. 20, 2010
Answer by ShouldHaveLeft at 9:07 AM on Dec. 20, 2010
Go on ahead and get out of the relationship so you can be happy again. It makes no sense in staying on in a relationship with a man that's only bringing you down. Your happiness is much more important.
Answer by NubianQueen78 at 10:27 AM on Dec. 20, 2010
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Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 11:41 AM on Dec. 20, 2010