that if you do it too much you will tear the lining between your vagina and your rectum, end up pooping thru your vag and having periods thru your ass? *lol* i heard it once here on cafemom actually and its the main reason im scared to try it with dh. i know it wont happen the first time but the fear of it keeps me from trying it at all. im also on the mindset that anal is more pleasurable for the man then the woman and im afraid it will hurt too much. so is that true?
Asked by Anonymous at 12:40 PM on Dec. 20, 2010 in Just for Fun
Maybe if it's forced extremely aggressively. But if you're careful & take precaution, then definitely no. We've been doing anal since we married over 20 years ago. I've never torn anything. We learned how to do it very gently. There is a right way & a wrong way to do it. I find it very pleasing & it will make me climax really hard if i use a vibrator on my clitoris while we're doing it.
Answer by Anonymous at 12:46 PM on Dec. 20, 2010
No, it is not true. You can be damaged only if your partner is aggressive and during the act he will hurt you. Anal sex is pleasurable for the woman and the man as well. For the first time try to use some moisturiser, cream or something and be really careful and gently. It helps if you play with your clitoris during the action as well. And you have to be very relaxed. The best first anal position if you lay on your side and HB go behind you lay on his side. If you are enough relaxed and you use cream and your HB is careful you may have a really good experience with this kind of experience:)
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Answer by bseastrand at 12:42 PM on Dec. 20, 2010
it can cause hemorrhoids but I dont know about tearing tissue all the way thru
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