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I sometimes go to porn sites to get sex ideas for me and my hubby am i wrong for doing this i just want to make sure im doing everything correct and making it fun for him

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Asked by Anonymous at 2:44 PM on Dec. 20, 2010 in Relationships

Answers (12)
  • No, it is not wrong education is a wonderful thing!

    Answer by older at 2:45 PM on Dec. 20, 2010

  • Porn sites are not normal sex lol.

    Answer by bjojola at 2:45 PM on Dec. 20, 2010

  • I recently went to look at blow jobs to try to make his experience better. OMG it worked and what I learned was awesome. So you are not alone girlfriend go for it.

    Answer by voni681 at 2:47 PM on Dec. 20, 2010

  • sure. Getting ideas is great. I wouldn't be concerned with doing it "right". As long as you're both enjoying it, that's what matters.

    Answer by elwalters77 at 2:47 PM on Dec. 20, 2010

  • Not at all strange!

    Answer by leah_rai at 2:48 PM on Dec. 20, 2010

  • Nope. I just ask my fellow cafemoms!!

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 2:50 PM on Dec. 20, 2010

  • i feel guilty because when my husband goes on i feel its cheating but i go on to get ideas and to meke myself better for him i feel wrong

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 2:52 PM on Dec. 20, 2010

  • Well I can't say I go to porn sites because I'd be too afraid of having my computer crash since it's what I use to edit and order prints for my clients after I have a photo session.

    Anyway I do read the articles in Cosmo and have visited groups on CM that give ideas for new positions, etc.

    Answer by kfroz0415 at 2:55 PM on Dec. 20, 2010

  • I've done it in the past. We have to learn somewhere! I also have a ebook of the kama sutra =P

    Answer by Nanixh at 2:55 PM on Dec. 20, 2010

  • No, DH and I both feel porn is equal to cheating.
    I don't feel the need to be perfect in bed, learning together is half the fun! Also, why the double standard? You don't want him to look at porn, but you can? That is something that should be addressed. Perhaps it is time to talk to your DH about it? Find out how he feels.

    Answer by RheaF at 2:57 PM on Dec. 20, 2010

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