Let's say I don't enjoy sex at all. (Speaking about the actual act of intercourse, there are other things I enjoy that we do as well.) I still give it up once a day, one GOOD time a day, and sometimes some head or a quickie in the morning.
My husband says this isn't enough, and if he had his way, we'd be having sex 5 times a day. He is seriously bothered by this.
I don't want to begin resenting him by doing it more than I want to, but I don't want him to be sexually frustrated, either.
Please don't say to spice things up in the bedroom, because things are already kinky and he says he's more than satisfied with the sex we already have.
Also, there is no way I'm ever going to enjoy intercourse. I just don't like penises, it isn't happening. I've already decided that if hubs and I split up, I will not be seeking out a relationship with another man.
Asked by Anonymous at 6:25 PM on Dec. 20, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by butterflyblue19 at 6:27 PM on Dec. 20, 2010
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Answer by LittleBirdFly at 6:32 PM on Dec. 20, 2010
WoW what is really going on here? I think there are far deeper issues than what you are listing (on both sides; yours and his) Are you only with him (and believe me I am not saying this rudely nor sarcastic) to hide the fact that you really are a lesbian? I mean I really am wondering - and how old his your Dh? Most men go through this early in life 18-23 and then it dwindles down and women pick back up around 40. But if you "don't like" penis' .... hmmm (they are attached to men) this may be where the problem lies all together. Just sayin.
Answer by gambilldl at 6:32 PM on Dec. 20, 2010
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