ive always known that im not my SO's type, (he prefers larger women with huge boobs and red hair) im average, large c cup, and dark brown hair, im the complete opposite of the girls he has pointed out. and for a long time it never bothered me, but lately i have noticed the way that he looks at me compared to the way he looks at "his type". its sooo different, there is such a longing there. he never makes me feel unloved, but very unwanted. he can easily pass out compliments to girls that are what he likes, and says really wonderful things about them, but never for me. i can wear pajamas for a week straight with no makeup and not even let my hair so much as look at a brush, then one day i can get really dressed up nice and feel wonderful about the way i look, and he looks at me like im still in the pajamas. (not that i wear them all the time)
should this bother me? am i being overly sensitive? ive talked to him about why that is and all he says is that he doesnt want to say it to much, but he doesnt even say it at all, not even slighty.
he says that he loves me and that im perfect for him, but i still cant help feeling like im just not what he wants though.
has anyone else been in a similar situation, oh and im also about 7 months pregnant with his baby.
Answer by mercy928 at 1:54 AM on Dec. 21, 2010
Answer by admckenzie at 2:14 AM on Dec. 21, 2010
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