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Are you friends with any of your EX's? Is you DH/SO friends with any of his?

 
kiansmom0423

Asked by kiansmom0423 at 2:32 PM on Dec. 21, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (16)
  • Neither of us are friends with our ex's. There is a reason why they are an ex so we keep them in the past
    mommy_of_two388

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 2:38 PM on Dec. 21, 2010

  • Yes, and Yes.

    Just because we weren't romantically compatible does not mean that we aren't still friends.
    ObbyDobbie

    Answer by ObbyDobbie at 2:44 PM on Dec. 21, 2010

  • ¸.•*¨my DH is not friends with any of his ex's..although he will talk to his ex that he has a daughter by only if its about his daughter and nothing more...i have a okay relationship with my ex..i think i feel good knowing that if i ever really need something i could actually call him ..we have a 13yr old together and i would help him if he needed..also¸.•*¨

    gracelessstar21

    Answer by gracelessstar21 at 2:35 PM on Dec. 21, 2010

  • I wouldn't say "friends" My dd's dad and I get along, we just spent thanksgiving at my dd's and it was fine, he and his wife are seperated right now but when she was with him we always got along too. My DH can't really stand being around his ex. but then neither can I. She is a person that can just get on your nerves, she is one of those people that acts all nice but then will turn around and say crappy things about you for no reason.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:38 PM on Dec. 21, 2010

  • No, and no.
    TweenAndTwinMom

    Answer by TweenAndTwinMom at 2:43 PM on Dec. 21, 2010

  • Im friends with ALL my ex's.
    ryanlynn

    Answer by ryanlynn at 2:47 PM on Dec. 21, 2010

  • No, and no. I'm my husband's first girlfriend so he doesn't have ex's haha, and my couple past relationships ended badly (abuse, cheating) so there's NO reason I'd want to stay in contact with them.
    Nanixh

    Answer by Nanixh at 2:47 PM on Dec. 21, 2010

  • Yes I am friends with my sons father, and many other ex's. Its just the type of person I am. Even though we could not be together romantically doesnt mean that we cant still be friends. Hubby is not the same, he hates all his ex's. Hmmmm am i weird?
    voni681

    Answer by voni681 at 2:47 PM on Dec. 21, 2010

  • I tried to be friends with an Ex but I noticed that everytime I told him about dating someone new, he would get pissed and it wouldnt be more then a week later that the new guy left. I later found out the Ex was contecting my new dates.
    As for my husband, he doesnt speak with his exs but they always message me crap about how they just want to "check up" on us and see if I need advice about my husband! lol
    Mrs.G1

    Answer by Mrs.G1 at 2:57 PM on Dec. 21, 2010

  • neither me or my husband are friends with any exs....we like it like that :)
    Truelove77

    Answer by Truelove77 at 2:59 PM on Dec. 21, 2010

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