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If you've been confronted by the wife, do you tell her EVERYTHING?

Someone I know was confronted by the wife. She knows about her married boyfriend's constant cheating with not just her but many. Should she tell the wife everything she knows or does it not matter?

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Asked by Anonymous at 5:50 PM on Dec. 21, 2010 in Relationships

Answers (21)
  • I think she should tell her! The wife has a right to know!

    Answer by Darla47 at 5:51 PM on Dec. 21, 2010

  • The person you knows is an idiot for doing this knowingly.... and the wife should know it all so she can leave his sorry ass

    Answer by bjojola at 5:52 PM on Dec. 21, 2010

  • Why is it the wife is always the last to know. Do her a favor...and tell.

    Answer by bb510 at 5:52 PM on Dec. 21, 2010

  • I would tell her and then I would ditch the loser!

    Answer by Jademom07 at 5:52 PM on Dec. 21, 2010

  • Well depends on how well I know the wife or husband and who I want to maintain a relationship with. I would ask her if she really wants to know then I would say the lower amount that I know. I would also venture to say have an std test.

    Answer by mmmegan38 at 5:52 PM on Dec. 21, 2010

  • I would just say that they have had a relationship and leave it at that. Details only hurt so that part isnt worth it. The wife has a right to know

    Answer by Steph319 at 5:53 PM on Dec. 21, 2010

  • Talk about a horrible Christmas Present! I don't know. I would say myself I'd want to know, but a lot of people wouldn't believe it. I know many men who don't believe their wive's are cheating, women seem to be more pissy about these matters though, so I don't know how I would personally handle this. Good luck!

    Answer by b_stotka at 5:53 PM on Dec. 21, 2010

  • Yes. I would NEVER put myself in the position of the "other woman." Shame on your friend for that.

    Answer by EverydayMomma at 5:56 PM on Dec. 21, 2010

  • she has to know

    Answer by neng999 at 5:56 PM on Dec. 21, 2010

  • Tell her, they all lie & deny.

    Answer by 405mom at 6:06 PM on Dec. 21, 2010

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