My husband as been best friends with J for over 20 years.. and I was really good friends with him for over 2 years (we all hung out with the same crowd.. he was roommates with him before we moved in together...) until he got his on and off again gf preggo.. then he couldnt talk to me... barely spoke with my hubby.. (she didnt like either of us??) anyway had a couples baby shower and didnt invite us.. invited my hubby's mom to the other but didnt invite us.. when the baby was born he didnt tell my hubby which hospital... then the next day got a text from the fiance' saying she was shocked we hadnt been to see the baby... how would we when we didnt know which hospital.. and my hubby even asked him... but we went that day to meet the new member of the family... he(J) finally got sick not being able to see/talk to his best friend who pretty much is like his brother.... anyway he started coming around more often . but not too often.. we invited them to our baby shower and they came and she acted like she FINALLY was cool with us. BUT when our son was born, they didnt come see him... and he will be a month on Friday... no attempt to come see him or anything.. and my husband called his parents tonight to ask if they wanted to come meet him.. I dont think it is cool that he had to call to ask his parents and him when they were going to meet our son (these people have always been about R & J being like brothers and they were the other set of parents etc etc .. and expected us to be there when his son was born but has made NO attempt to come meet our son) so i dont think WE will be TAKING him to meet them ??? how crappy is that.. you can't even drive ten minutes down the road to meet him???? you live like 10 min away and cant meet our son.. dont even try?? i am really upset that he even called to ask them. i know his feelings are hurt but this is how i look at it.. i tell my friends and family when my children are born.... you make the effort to come see them if you want to meet them.. all of my good friends do... i know he is a good friend so he should have already met him.
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