I wouldn't consider this a "time of need". You made a decision, probably with very good reason (as you say you had a lot of problems with your pregnancy). Now you regret that decision.
Your husband may be able to have a reversal, but before you do that you'd better look at what you're trying to do. Why do you want a baby so badly that you're even using it as your identity? What is it that you think a baby will solve? Why is it so important.
You may be able to have another and you may not - and if you can't, you'll simply need to live with the decision that you and your husband made 5 years ago.
at 8:56 PM on Dec. 21, 2010