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a question courtesy of DH, I think because he wants to know if I'm normal LOL
How often ideally would you have sex with your SO?
I think being a mom is exhausting, and it's harder for women to switch hats and go from "Mom" to "Sex Kitten" in the blink of an eye the way men can. Your thoughts?


Asked by musicpisces at 12:15 AM on Dec. 22, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (17)
  • I would like to be intimate with my husband at least three times a week. Unfortunately because of health issues and having two babies it is sometimes more like two or three times a month (if we are lucky) *sigh*
    Luckily my husband loves me and our relationship is more than sex, so we are working through it.
    I agree with you that it's hard to switch hats when you are in mommy mode..sometimes you just don't want to be touched.

    Answer by tobys.mommy at 12:21 AM on Dec. 22, 2010

  • We usually have sex several {6+} times a week, but that is only if I make a concerted effort to be in the mood. My husband is chronically depressed and sex is important to his ego, which ties in with his mood. So we work to have sex.

    My poor husband this month we have only had sex once. I was extremely sick at Thanksgiving with pneumonia and then he got a terrible head and chest cold, then I got my cycle, and now I am getting sick again... I have a fever. UGH! Poor guy. But he understands and isn't cranky about it.

    Answer by SleepingBeautee at 12:20 AM on Dec. 22, 2010

  • I might be weird... but I totally think of sex all the time, do I get to do it as often as I want NOPE. :( Kids and him working makes it hard but I still wae up i nthe middle of the night at least once a week to "jump his bones".

    We have sex at least 4 times a week.:)

    Answer by kiansmom0423 at 12:18 AM on Dec. 22, 2010

  • like every other night lol call me a nymph haha

    Answer by Heidikans at 12:21 AM on Dec. 22, 2010

  • Usually once a week. However I usually have "me time" twice a week.

    Answer by 2murphyboys at 12:27 AM on Dec. 22, 2010

  • i dont have a guy in my life at the moment..but if i did..and it was up to have sex like 5-6 times a day!

    Answer by alexis_06 at 12:27 AM on Dec. 22, 2010

  • It is hard to switch hats. Ideally I would like it 3-5 times a day but reality leaves me with about 3 times a week :(

    Answer by My_3_Babies at 12:34 AM on Dec. 22, 2010

  • 5 plus times a week

    Answer by lstrickland at 1:11 AM on Dec. 22, 2010

  • I would like twice a week. Sometimes it is more or less.

    Answer by dancinintherain at 12:17 AM on Dec. 22, 2010

  • Now that I am pregnant it is fewer times. We used to do it all the time.

    Answer by tymma11 at 12:19 AM on Dec. 22, 2010