My husband and I have been married almost a year and a half now, and we have a four month old daugther. Generally speaking, everything is great, but ever since we had our daughter, things have definitely seemed on the rocks sometimes between us. I don't by any means want to get divorced...I love my husband more then anything...he and our daughter are my world....but I feel so unhappy with our relationship right at the moment. I feel as though I'm giving everything I've got and he still doesn't appreciate it and that no matter what, I just can't do enough. Is it normal to go through a period like this? Is there something else, outside of our home, that could be causing my husbands own unhappiness or rage (that sometimes comes out directed at me)? Would appreciate any useful info. or help.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 5:36 PM on Nov. 9, 2008 in Relationships
Answer by Anonymous at 5:51 PM on Nov. 9, 2008
Answer by Steph319 at 6:09 PM on Nov. 9, 2008
Your hubby is probably a bit freaked about the financial costs of a baby. The lack of privacy, and free time can also be a factor. All couples go through a period of adjustment after having a baby. Try talking to him and tell him how you feel and discuss your concerns together. You dont have to fight about it. Your both adults and can discuss things in an adult manner. Tell him how you feel and discuss your concerns.
Answer by vbruno at 6:10 PM on Nov. 9, 2008
Answer by daughteroftruth at 6:38 PM on Nov. 9, 2008
Answer by hopelessnance at 7:18 PM on Nov. 9, 2008