ok first off i already know my family is crazy but i dont have the heart to stand up to them.
My son is 14m and the light if my life, he's a major handful (ie. tempertantroms/biting/hitting) because I havent been able to raise him the way I would have chosen (ie. sleeptrain/disipline) because my grandma is the only reliable babysitter I have, she requires him raised the way she wants (we live with them), and my dh is ether at work or asleep (12+hrs a day) so I'm always on my own, because our marriage is on the rocks I am not allowed to even leave the house without my dh or grandma, I like to go to clubs and act my age every now and then with my girlfriends (maybe 1 a month) but I am only allowed to go once every 4-6m and then my dh has such a fit we leave early and fight all night, and if i even dare ask if I can go out I get bashed for "being a bad mother/being selfish" . I've lived on my own since i was 17 and now I'm actually caged in. I never had any legal/drug/drinking problems. anyone have any thoughts? sugestions? anything? I feel like maybe I am crazy sometimes? how can I deal with this?
and no I cant just leave, my dh wont leave and every lawyer I talk to says if i took my son and left anyway it would cause serious problems. And I will NEVER leave my son!
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