We don't physically fight or name-call but we do have fights frequently. It tends to be the same things over and over. Finances is always somewhere at the root of it. Dh hurts my feelings and I cry and he says he's sorry out of obligation and then goes right back to being mean, sometimes that same day. What else can I do? I have explained to him in great detail that he is being hurtful. He is also quick-tempered and yells a lot and he knows that makes me very upset with lo's in the house and also I came from an abusive home where there was a lot of yelling and it triggers those childhood feelings/memories inme and I've explained that too to dh.
Asked by Anonymous at 4:00 AM on Dec. 23, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by WalknWithGod at 4:19 AM on Dec. 23, 2010
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Answer by 2murphyboys at 4:23 AM on Dec. 23, 2010
Most couples dis agree especially about money know-a-days. My hubby and I argue about money a lot also but yelling and screaming will get you all no where and you are not breaking the cycle you grew up in. Learn to agree to dis agree it takes a lot to do but sometimes you just have to swallow it and do it with pride. That's about all I have for you. Being a women, mother wife and partner isn't the easiest thing sometimes.
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