My baby father is a deadbeat dad. He has never acknowleged his son as his. He pays c/s by default. But the truth is he isn't a deadbeat dad to his stepson. He worships his 7 yr step son and has never seen or even breathed our son's name.( our son 4mos) His wife knew about his adultry ways and still stands by him.( I did not know he was married/engaged) I am angry for number of reason's -you name it- I have or already felt it. However I am sad sometimes and yet I find myself jealous that he is with her and her son. It's become an obessive feeling of " why her and not me?". I feel bad for our son who will never know his father too. I know I am better than this but sometimes I feel like I wish I was her. Whats going on and is this normal? I love my son sooo much, I hurt for him.
Asked by Anonymous at 10:29 AM on Dec. 23, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by mizekman at 6:27 PM on Dec. 24, 2010
Answer by gabenmikeysmom at 10:49 AM on Dec. 23, 2010
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Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 10:49 AM on Dec. 23, 2010
Answer by ohwrite at 11:00 AM on Dec. 23, 2010
Answer by mom2mybabes at 11:02 AM on Dec. 23, 2010
Jealousy is natural, you were betrayed and you should just consider him a sperm Donner at least he pays child support. I married my daughters father because we were in a lust/friendship relationship and birth control failed he is lazy and does not financially help he just plays mmos all day, I dont really love him and he resents me too. we pretend were in love for DDs sake but my point is things are never ideal and we just need to move on and appreciate what we have and do our best to be contented for our children's sake. Be grateful you arent stuck with the douche bag.
Answer by GINSMUM123 at 11:12 AM on Dec. 23, 2010
Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 11:27 AM on Dec. 23, 2010
Answer by admckenzie at 11:39 AM on Dec. 23, 2010