He is 23 had 18 brain surgeries, 4 for Ulcerative Colitis and now he has to go in again for another one on Monday!! How would you get him through this without him giving up all hope on ever getting better? How would your husband/S/O cope?Answer Question
You do what you have to do. It's just what we moms do. I was a single mom so the father of my children would never have gone to the hospital or visited afterward. You can do this.
Answer by admckenzie at 11:34 AM on Dec. 23, 2010
Answer by LindaClement at 11:38 AM on Dec. 23, 2010
My son is 8 and he has had 10 surgeries He was born with cleft lip and palette. He still has more surgeries in his future. I am just grateful that everything is so advanced now. Because with this last one he just got they would have to do a bone graft and take a piece of bone from his hip. Just 2 years ago they they found a better way to do it. His dad has never been to a surgery but I have my family and my dad always goes with us for support. Just live in the fact that he has come this far. Don't let that take over the fact that he is blessed and you have him with you. Just let him know you will be there when he comes back in the room and tell him you love him. Enjoy him today and don't live in the days you can't see yet. Be blessed!!!!!!!!!!! " Life is more than waiting for the storm to pass. Life is learning how to dance in the rain."
Answer by LADYA1983 at 12:42 PM on Dec. 23, 2010
Answer by asil at 8:29 PM on Dec. 23, 2010