did you post your email address in a group or are your referring to a Private Message on cafemom?
at 8:41 PM on Nov. 9, 2008
is your screen name the same as your email like for example mjones
and then they just tried something like firstname.lastname@example.org, that is the only way i can think of other than maybe you posting it somewhere and it was remembered.
Go to a member's profile page.
To the right of her profile picture, you will see two links: 'Send a message' and 'Invite as friend'.
Click on 'Send a message'.
The next page will allow you to compose a note.
Click the 'Send Message' button when you are done.