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MY 23 YO STEP DAUGHTER GOT MARRIED

2 OR 3 WKS AGO MY STEPDAUGHTER GOT MARRIED AND DIDNT EVEN INVITE HER BROTHER,SISTER OR MYSELF. IM REALLY UPSET WE WERENT INVITED. BUT SHE HAD HER BIOLOGICAL DAD  AND SISTER THAT SHE GREW UP WITH COME FROM GEORGIA.

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 3:25 PM on Dec. 23, 2010 in Adult Children (18+)

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  • Are you guys close? How long had she been planning the wedding? Was she trying to eliminate stress on her special day?
    ria7

    Answer by ria7 at 3:26 PM on Dec. 23, 2010

  • why would it bother you soo much ? if she didnt invite you it might be because you arent close...either way shes an adult & can make her own decisions .... shes not that young anymore
    mommyof2chasmin

    Answer by mommyof2chasmin at 3:29 PM on Dec. 23, 2010

  • IVE KNOWN HER SINCE SHE WAS5 AND SHE ALWAYS INVITED TO MY HOUSE FOR. WHEN OUT IN PUBLIC SHE TELLS PEOPLE THAT IM HER STEPMOM
    Anonymous

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 3:33 PM on Dec. 23, 2010

  • Have you tried talking to her on why? Are you and her dad still together? If not I can understand you but not her siblings.
    mommy_of_two388

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 3:33 PM on Dec. 23, 2010

  • If it's your step-daughter, that means you're married to her BioDad, right? Why on earth would he not tell you, and why would she invite him and not you? That confuses me.
    AtHomeMommy-3

    Answer by AtHomeMommy-3 at 3:33 PM on Dec. 23, 2010

  • well its obvious she doesnt care for you how you do for her just dont let it get to you ... either way shes not your real daughter .... someone like that isnt worth you getting mad over something like that =)
    mommyof2chasmin

    Answer by mommyof2chasmin at 3:38 PM on Dec. 23, 2010

  • Did you ask her
    louise2

    Answer by louise2 at 3:44 PM on Dec. 23, 2010

  • Are you with her father? Well if you are with him then you are her step mom, what else should she call you. If you aren't with him anymore, then you are no longer her step mom and I understand why she didn't invite you, Are these siblings your children or her real siblings?
    JLS2388

    Answer by JLS2388 at 3:50 PM on Dec. 23, 2010

  • I'm so sorry. I have had a similar thing happen in our family and we never got an explanation for it. It was so hurtful. hug
    elizabr

    Answer by elizabr at 4:59 PM on Dec. 23, 2010

  • So sorry you're hurting. The real revenge: make nice with the new SIL and nurture the relationship :)
    tortkey

    Answer by tortkey at 5:57 PM on Dec. 23, 2010

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