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what would make you leave your marriage when it really came down to it ?

i have learned never say never

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letstalk747

Asked by letstalk747 at 2:07 AM on Dec. 24, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (12)
  • If he was abusing either me or my child or if he cheated on me....those are sings to me to get the hell out.
    Shelii

    Answer by Shelii at 2:10 AM on Dec. 24, 2010

  • I believe in never say never but, my man would have to cheat on me before I leave him.. I'm not married..
    Patientchild3

    Answer by Patientchild3 at 2:11 AM on Dec. 24, 2010

  • Abuse, cheat
    CAPONES

    Answer by CAPONES at 2:14 AM on Dec. 24, 2010

  • If I fell out of love or he just don't make me happy no need to be sad all the time or if they are running around it's a big world out there I reather be happy
    Nash79

    Answer by Nash79 at 2:24 AM on Dec. 24, 2010

  • Any type of abuse, too controlling, drug or alcohol addict, cheated, anything that would hurt me and my kids or not a healthy living situation.
    MinnieMouse8

    Answer by MinnieMouse8 at 2:31 AM on Dec. 24, 2010

  • Never say never is a really good one which I have learned too. But cheating and abusing is NOT allowed at all.
    bratgirln1

    Answer by bratgirln1 at 3:32 AM on Dec. 24, 2010

  • Abuse or cheating.
    My hubby and I have a very strong relationship so i don't think that he would ever do either one of them not even so much as raise a hand to me. Another thing that would end it would be laying a hand on my children no matter if my DD or any of my Step-Children.
    raemommy

    Answer by raemommy at 3:56 AM on Dec. 24, 2010

  • I agree, any kind of abuse and/or cheating
    ChezBelle

    Answer by ChezBelle at 4:26 AM on Dec. 24, 2010

  • Physical abuse or repeated adultery. If there is no trust there is no relationship.
    duckigrrl

    Answer by duckigrrl at 7:55 AM on Dec. 24, 2010

  • I would file for divorce within 24 hours (and I've been married 25 years) for any of the following:

    Cheating.. in any way, shape or form. He's was given a 2nd chance 16 years ago. He never gets another

    Drinking alcohol in way shape or form.. Another issues he's already been given a 2nd chance on 16 years ago. He hasn't had a drink in 16 years, if he just had one, I'm gone.

    Abuse of any sort.

    Any of those 3 things in any form would/will have me filing for divorce within 24 hours. I will contact my lawyer, put our post-nup into play and call it quits.
    pixie_trix

    Answer by pixie_trix at 3:59 PM on Dec. 24, 2010

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