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Do you think that you're more or less strict with your children than your parents were with you?

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ceallaigh

Asked by ceallaigh at 10:16 AM on Dec. 24, 2010 in General Parenting

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  • more, my parents weren't there as much they both worked. It was different then too, we ran the streets and played till dark.
    raisingmen

    Answer by raisingmen at 10:19 AM on Dec. 24, 2010

  • I'm less strict in a lot of ways. I let my kids be kids - they don't have to disappear when we have company, I let them go to their friends houses, I encourage them to think outside of the box when it comes to clothes/hair, even religion.
    Scuba

    Answer by Scuba at 10:19 AM on Dec. 24, 2010

  • My parents were very strict with us and while I was extremely strict with my oldest 2 that are 33 & 30 I am so not strict with my almost 9 yr old. Age mellows a person I think but she is also as well behaved as her older siblings were
    Moms_Angels1960

    Answer by Moms_Angels1960 at 10:20 AM on Dec. 24, 2010

  • Less. I was required to be one of those "seen and not heard' kids
    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 10:20 AM on Dec. 24, 2010

  • More, my parents had very few rules and had no idea what I was doing.
    scout_mom

    Answer by scout_mom at 10:21 AM on Dec. 24, 2010

  • Less, my dad held a very tight reign over us and I resented him for it.
    Queenofscrap

    Answer by Queenofscrap at 10:22 AM on Dec. 24, 2010

  • Well my dd is only 2, so I'm not sure how strict my parents were with me when I was 2...but I'm definitely a lot more forgiving than my parents...lol. I don't (and will never) spank, so I will be doing a lot more disciplining than punishment.
    Fallaya

    Answer by Fallaya at 10:23 AM on Dec. 24, 2010

  • meant to say "a lot more disciplining than PUNISHING"
    Fallaya

    Answer by Fallaya at 10:24 AM on Dec. 24, 2010

  • My parents were more strict than I was. I tried to be consistent with important rules. I tried to tell them what was expected before the problem. But I was not real lenient. My son is way more stirct with his daughter. Funny.
    SweetLuci

    Answer by SweetLuci at 10:25 AM on Dec. 24, 2010

  • I am th same no matter what. I do not believe in being different just becasue my parents are around. My mom might say something if she doesn't agree although they are my kids and thankfully I am raising them the way I was raised so there are not many times when my mother will disagree with what I am doing.
    cornflakegirl3

    Answer by cornflakegirl3 at 10:27 AM on Dec. 24, 2010

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