Three days ago my ex and father of my child called and TOLD me that he will be picking her up on the 17th of December and taking her until the 26th to his parents house about 4 hours away. I have an issue with this because he has had no real role in her life, never spent any alone time with her, or taking care of her. Even when we lived with him for 5 months he was always too busy to be involved. I think that her being with him for that time and away from everything she knows will be a bad experience for her. Based on the papers we have from the court technically this is his year to have her for Christmas. My mom has told me that if I refuse to let her go I could get in serious trouble but I have no idea what will happen if I let her go with him. Has anyone else gone through this or know what will happen if I refuse?
Asked by Anonymous at 11:27 PM on Nov. 9, 2008 in Preschoolers (3-4)
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