He was a friend... a good friend, and one night things got heated, first and only time I had even kissed him! Now Im 27 weeks pregnant and I havent heard from him in 2 months.
He has a 5yr old. Which he loves and claims. He is separated from his wife(A different women)(before we got together he was separated) she is about a week or two away from having their baby. (I didnt know anything about her til after we had sex, other then they were separated.) He is completely excited about her baby... though she wants nothing to do with him. Especially after she found out about me through someone else. That was about 2 months ago.
I understand that it's a lot... but this is still his child too... He has tried his best to completely stress me out, from the time I was 5 weeks until I was 20 weeks. He drove me crazy... When I first started to show, he told me it was just a fat roll... really bothered me. He told me he was going to jail for 300 days for driving with out a license. It wasn't true. He told me he tried to commit suicide. Which apparently wasn't true either... He has told me several things to try and upset me. I told him just to sign over his rights and I would leave him alone, he said okay. He wanted a DNA test too, which is fine. I don't care. I know it is his. I wish it weren't. I just don't understand how someone can only love 2 out of their 3 children...
We did have one moment he seemed interested... we were talking about names when I was about 10 weeks pregnant. He got into it, because I was the only one out of the 3 women who were going to let him help pick out a name. That lasted about 30mins....
I just feel like I have failed my baby boy... he is going to grow up not knowing his biological father... nor will he know his 2 brothers! It's killing me... :(
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