Just stay out of her way, if she really hates you, your presence will just piss her off more. I had a SM and I didn't care for her, she tried too hard, my dad ended up divorcing her because she put a wedge in our family.
so I'll give you some tips cause my SM was clueless:
So just from my experience Let her feel the way she feels, give her her space, maybe you'll find that she'll come around you if you're doing something interesting. Like if you like to draw, or do crafts, try to do it when she's there, that way you are doing your own thing, and maybe she will want to come join you. And even if you can get her to join on an activity with you but it's silent complementing her every once in a while, say your doing crafts, sort of say how well she's doing and ya know, get excited, call her dad over to see how great it is. good luck
at 10:56 PM on Dec. 24, 2010