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Why are/were there (deleted them) friends on my friends list

that I never added?

I never add friends - ever. So the fact there were two on there bugs me. One was the cafemom team, another was a possible group owner?

Do these add themselves automatically? How come I've never seen them on there before?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 10:30 PM on Dec. 24, 2010 in About CafeMom

Answers (8)
  • As far as I know you have to accept them as friends. Did you get hacked?
    Snewo

    Answer by Snewo at 10:38 PM on Dec. 24, 2010

  • I would change your password.
    Snewo

    Answer by Snewo at 10:38 PM on Dec. 24, 2010

  • change your password you prob. got hacked.
    VERONICAS_MOM

    Answer by VERONICAS_MOM at 11:56 PM on Dec. 24, 2010

  • Dittto with the other posters!
    shanapiv

    Answer by shanapiv at 12:08 AM on Dec. 25, 2010

  • I really couldn't say. The CM team usually has to be invited by the member but they might have gone through a phase where they invited people. Since you deleted them already this may not work, but in your inbox you can click the invites (to you) and invites sent (from you) links and on those pages choose the accepted invites tab. That will tell you when you became friends with them. If it isn't there anymore, I would for sure send a contact us message to CM to find out when you became friends with them, and who contacted who.

    My first gues would be that you just clicked through and accepted them without realizing it.
    Liansmommie

    Answer by Liansmommie at 5:25 AM on Dec. 25, 2010

  • Contact CM and ask. I've never had that happen. You have to accept invite for them to be on your friend's list.
    horsesteelers

    Answer by horsesteelers at 6:44 PM on Dec. 26, 2010

  • You can delete them if you don't want them as friends.
    horsesteelers

    Answer by horsesteelers at 6:44 PM on Dec. 26, 2010

  • No one can be added automatically, you need to respond to the request.
    HotMama330

    Answer by HotMama330 at 11:19 AM on Dec. 27, 2010

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