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Am I wrong?

We recently tried to rescue a kitten we found near our house, but he didn't make it. My friend was all kinds of pissed at me because I didn't want to tell my son that he died. I just told him that he went back home with his family and he was okay with that answer. I didn't think it was necessary to explain death to my 2 year old.


Asked by TitusMom7 at 4:17 AM on Dec. 25, 2010 in Toddlers (1-2)

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Answers (10)
  • You were absoulty right thats a small age to understand the concept of death thats why your his mommy :)

    Answer by premiemom18 at 10:04 AM on Dec. 26, 2010

  • Children don't start to understand death until around 5 years old. Why burden a child with something he can't understand? I think what you did was fine. In 6 months he probably won't remember the kitten anyway.

    Besides, how you parent is your choice not your friends. Why would she care so much anyway?

    Answer by momofkids at 6:38 AM on Dec. 25, 2010

  • No, not at 2. What you did was fine. At least I think so anyway..I would have done the same thing. 2 year olds don't need to be comtemplating death.

    Answer by jessicarae787 at 4:29 AM on Dec. 25, 2010

  • I think what you did is appropriate. It's your job to parent your child, not hers.

    Answer by Razelda at 5:14 AM on Dec. 25, 2010

  • what you did was fine

    Answer by mom2eas at 4:34 AM on Dec. 25, 2010

  • You are not wrong at all. When my daughter asks where grandma is I just tell her she went to heaven. No need for details quite yet.

    Answer by amber1330 at 4:46 AM on Dec. 25, 2010

  • You did good. He couldn't have understood anything else

    Answer by admckenzie at 5:18 AM on Dec. 25, 2010

  • I agree, you weren't wrong at all.

    Answer by Sarahe786 at 7:15 AM on Dec. 25, 2010

  • I agree with you...why tell a toddler that when it can be avoided

    Answer by jeni0323 at 11:11 PM on Dec. 25, 2010

  • I think you did the right thing. Two year olds are not old enough for lengthy details about things because they just won't understand.

    Answer by CafeMochaMom1 at 2:16 PM on Dec. 26, 2010