I believe she is just trying to disrespect me. Isn't it my job to buy my husband a gift in the kids name like I always have? how dare she!!!!
My question is being posted because BM is a nasty, ungrateful ingrate who tells her kids their father is liar. She is not the normal BM who thinks about her kids first. Never once has she bothered to buy my husband a gift. I always have. This question is not because I am insecure in my marriage... My husband left her. The question is because I want to understand the thinking behind the act. That is all. I am stepmom who is dealing with a very insecure jealous woman and at times I might get wrapped up in it all because I love the kids and hate how she uses them, and that is when I post on cafemom, seeking advice from all of you.
P.S.....B.M. means " Biological mother" because as many of you know, you do not have to give birth to be a mother. BM is a term that was introduced to me here by other women in cafemom. It is not an insult. I am a stepmother seeking advice from other women on how to handle this situation, I do not need insults, A stepmom is NOT a step down from a mother, it is the person who steps in to do the job of the birth or biological mother when she does not. It is a team effort believe it or not.
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